Saying these two words and I can already see some of you sitting with eyes glazing over as your mind wanders...
“I should totally log on and check my notifications or go tweet my favourite celeb in hope that they’ll respond...”
For those of you that have succumbed to the cult-trend that is BlackBerry you’re not too concerned right now because your phone is sure to tell you when someone interacts with you on any of your social media sites.
Yip, you know who you are... Conformist! ;) |
Technology has the ability to effortlessly connect us. In the past you had to wait patiently days on end for your trusty “messenger” to ride his noble steed out into the wilderness to deliver a letter that was painstakingly written by hand only to find that while you were trying to profess your undying love for your fair maiden that bitch upped and found someone else.
With a simple tweet or status update this awkwardness could probably have been avoided but I guess Gayward -cough- Edward was kinda “old fashioned” being 100 years old and all |
Don’t get me wrong, the pros of social interaction from behind the safety of a computer screen or cell phone are evident. In a society where so much is placed on appearance social sites like Twitter give those that are, for lack of a better word, FUGLY, a fighting chance to prove their worth without being judged beforehand.
For those of us that had a childhood without the magic at our fingertips now known as the interwebz, we learned that there are certain things you couldn't say out loud due to the beating you'd probably receive. There was none of this "passive-aggressive cryptic" self expression that is now found in online statuses daily. We weren't bombarded by this insane amount of knowledge that is now stored out in cyber space and that grows daily at an alarming rate. We probably met marginally less people than the generation of today are exposed to and so each relationship we formed was likely to have more depth and received more of our attention. It was easier to concentrate simply because we had less to concentrate on.
It's not ADD, it's fucking Information Overload bitches! |
I am willing to bet that every single one of us that make use of social networking have been victim to the "complications" that can arise. The essence of a message being misunderstood by a loved one due to the lack of tone or expression in the written word, the gossip that can arise from people that have nothing better to do than to internet stalk others. Modern relationships are, for the most part, fickle. The idea of love is thrown around without much thought. Individuals jump from one fad to another faster than Tiger Woods chasing a hot piece of ass. We THINK we know someone based on what they choose to share online but can we really make that assumption?
I watch as tweens sit glued to their phones while you're trying to have a conversation with them. I've seen the pressure for young girls to pout and pose for the perfect "profile" picture. Cameras are no longer taken along to capture memories but rather to steal moments in time that will eventually fill up albums on Facebook. A beautiful sunset captures our attention and we no longer stop, hold our breath and take it in but rather snap it on our phones and upload it to Twitter to share it with the world. A woman Tweets through the duration of her birth, another woman Tweets and Blogs as she has an abortion, Facebook profiles are created on behalf of unborn fetuses... Have we finally lost it or am I just too "old school"?
So basically we can thank this guy for the stalker friendly portal that is Facebook:
Good old Mark Zuckerberg |
There hasn’t been a movie about this dude yet so we're on a no-name basis right now |
Jokes aside, these are great minds that had great visions to connect the world and bring us closer together... Where the ideas are fantastic I worry about the complete disconnection they are responsible for and aS I wOtcH DiS bEcUm dA nOrM amUng da YoOth I fEaR 4 dA fUtcHa oF oUr gEnaRasHins...
Watch out world... The Social Fuck Up is here and there is no way it's going anywhere any time soon...
Knowledge is power and will be our saviour. Be aware and intelligently adapt, or eat shit as you're left behind.
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